Sexual abuse of children, as those who know me, is something I've campaigned against - a crime with dire and extensive consequences for victims. But imagine too the horrifying prospect of being falsely accused of sexually abusing your own child; trying to prove innocence in the face of repeated charges of guilt. Imagine being that child forcibly taken into to foster care, or seeing your father removed from the family home.
In Christchurch up to 50 families were torn apart when government health professionals and social workers wrongly and repeatedly accused dozens of dads of abusing their daughters. The girls were primary school age. Now they're grown women, reunited with their families (if alive) still fighting for justice, but despite media coverage they've been ignored for years. They won't give up.
This is their story.
On a cold Christchurch day in June 2015 Violette
Kahukiwa, 36, warm in a puffer jacket, speaks to me in a room at the city’s Te
Whare Roimata marae, recalling what happened 27 years ago when she went to
Glenelg Health Camp.
Violette’s
story.
In 1987 when Violette was nine the nurse at
her primary school sent her to Glenelg in Hillsborough because she was
considered too skinny for her age. Violette and her older sister were living
with their father, Noki (her parents had amicably separated) but they both regularly
saw their mother, Heeni. Violette had been to Glenelg several times before and by
her own account, she’d always enjoyed herself.
In 1987 the Medical Officer of Health
working on contract for the Canterbury Area Health Board at Glenelg was Dr
Dianne Espie and Violette’s health examinations would turn out to be more thorough
than before, which were always just, “weight, height, nits, that sort of thing.”
This time, despite the fact Violette showed no indications of sexual abuse, she
and scores of other young girls would undergo invasive internal examinations in
what one child abuse expert later termed a “fishing expedition”.
Violette has told her story to journalists
several times over the past 20 years and it hasn’t changed substantially in
that time – not when she was filmed by
journalist Rob Harley in 1995 for Assignment,
nor for an interview recorded by the child abuse expert witnesses TVNZ
commissioned for that documentary, nor for this article.
And the telling doesn’t get any less
emotional. “I went into [Dr Espie’s] room and she asked me to take off my pants;
she just wanted to do a little check or something and then she grabbed two
cotton buds in the jelly kind of thing, stuck them up [my vagina] and it was
sore and she pulled them out again.”
Violette says Dr Espie didn’t examine any
other part of her body and no other adult was present. At a later appointment
Violette asked if the team leader could come with her but Dr Espie ruled this
out, telling her the consultations were “confidential”. Neither Heeni nor Noki
were aware of, nor had given consent for this intimate examination. But more
was to come.
“The next day she got a tape measure, she
was leaning down there and she measures it…and then she showed me how long it
was.”
Dr Espie was measuring the opening of the
vagina, or the diameter of the hymen, looking for evidence of sexual abuse
based on a wider range of hymen size. Even at that time, the late 1980s, this
was a highly controversial, some would say discredited method of diagnosing
sexual abuse in children who had not previously disclosed. Dr Espie was not a
gynaecologist, she had a MB ChB (1974) from the University of Bristol – the
first professional degree in medicine.
The next day Violette was called back to
the doctor’s rooms for a recorded conversation.
“She asked me if Dad’s ever touched me in
my private parts and I said no, and then she said, do you like living with your
Dad and I said yes. She kept asking me all these big questions and all that,
heaps of questions…and then she asked me if Dad touched me again, she asked me
at least about four times if he did and I just kept saying no, no, no he didn’t
and then she um, she looked all red and she told me it wasn’t her day, she said
she’s just had a real bad day today and um, she’s going all red on the face and
then next minute she just slapped me side of the ears.”
According to Violette, Dr Espie quickly
apologized and told her to “keep it a secret” before she turned off the tape.
She then said, “You know he touched you and why can’t you just admit it. I said
but he didn’t touch me. She goes well someone’s touched you and I said why, and
she said cos my vagina’s getting bigger and bigger and I said well, it’s sore,
cos of what she done.”
These interviews, examinations and
measurements of the vagina continued while Violette stayed at the camp.
Repeated leading questions about her father: “She said if I didn’t say yes,
that Dad touched me, then I can’t go and live with him, but I just kept saying
no he didn’t touch me I was telling the truth.”
After a week Violette was removed from the
camp into foster care.
Heeni says she spent three months trying to
find her daughter. Glenelg gave her no information, nor the Christchurch
Police. In that time Violette escaped from foster care, ran away several times,
a nine-year-old hiding on the streets of Christchurch.
Meanwhile, Heeni tried to make sense of the
state system alienating her from her daughter. In an unscreened but recorded
interview for Assignment she said, “I
said [to Social Welfare] you fellas are accusing Noki and yet you fellas won’t
give my baby back to me. I want her back I’ll look after her. I just cried, you
know, really cried my heart out and they set up dates to see whether I was
going to get Violette back or not. It was the hardest time for me cos I [couldn’t]
understand as a Maori I have very limited English. I know.”
Finally, desperate to get Violette back, Heeni
complied with Social Welfare’s wishes. “She [the social worker] said, ‘Do you
believe that Noki did abuse your child?’
“I said I’ll agree with what you fellas say
provided I get my daughter back…all I needed to do was to see my baby.”
Noki was never charged and was eventually reunited with Violette when she
was 16, but died, his family say a broken man, in 2002.
Trevor
Gibling’s story
Trevor Gibling is also at Te Whare Roimata with
Violette, her sister Keri, and supporters to tell me his story. Later we’re
joined by other families affected by Dr Espie – one family has driven in from
rural Canterbury, and others arrive later. The list of families with complaints
is substantial.
Lynley Hood wrote about Trevor and his
daughter, Carolynne in her book, A City
Possessed - The Christchurch Civic Creche Case, but didn’t identify them. They
later went public for Assignment,
then in September 2004 were interviewed by TVNZ for a Sunday documentary. Separated for eight years, like other families,
Trevor and Carolynne want an inquiry.
Carolynne was recommended to Glenelg in
1987 by her family doctor because of incontinence problems. She’d never
displayed signs of sexual abuse, but Dianne Espie gave her a health check, told
her to take her trousers off and lie on the bed. She measured eight-year-old
Carolynne’s vaginal opening as “6 mm diameter”, that she had “no hymen” so concluded
sexual penetration had occurred.
Carolynne was also asked to write a list of
family names, then cross off everyone not involved in “yukky touching”. (It
should be noted that Dr Espie, before private consultations with girls at the
camp, had conducted group meetings where “yukky touching” was discussed in
relation to sexual abuse.) Carolynne crossed off all names except her own. Instead
of accepting that Carolynne hadn’t been abused Dr Espie took this to mean, “She
felt very strongly that it was her fault and that she was responsible.”
When Carolynne repeatedly denied being
abused by her father Dr Espie recorded she, “continued to find it difficult to
actually name the person who had abused her.”
Today Carolynne feels she was ambushed into
‘admitting’ her dad had abused her. Dr Espie noted: “In one question it was
asked what if Dad has yukky touched. Answer: he didn’t. A little later: what if
you went home and it happened again? Answer: he won’t do it again.”
Carolynne also remembers anatomically
correct dolls: “She started blaming it on Dad, using the dolls. She wouldn’t
listen to me no matter what I said.”
There are a number of flaws not just in Dr
Espie’s evidence gathering, but also her diagnosis. Author Lynley Hood pointed
out back in 2001 that she believed Espie
was exhibiting gynaecological ignorance. Complete absence of hymen in young
girls is a very rare congenital abnormality, not a conclusive indication of
repeated sexual abuse. Even women who’ve had children often still have traces
of hymen. Nevertheless, when Trevor Gibling laid a complaint against Dr Espie
in 1997 to the Medical Council, The Preliminary Proceedings Committee (PPC)
chose to believe controversial findings from overseas, such as “a vaginal
opening of greater than 5mm is not common (in normal children) and may indicate
vaginal penetration with a finger, object or penis”.
A full reading of the PPC’s decision
indicates they generally believed Dr Espie over Carolynne’s evidence, and for
the complaint to go further, Carolynne was invited to “establish beyond the
balance of probabilities” that what she said happened, did occur.
According to Trevor she was not allowed a
support person when the Council questioned her, so he withdrew the complaint.
It’s difficult to see how a traumatized
teenage girl, on her own, could convince a medical panel she was telling the
truth, “beyond the balance of probabilities”.
On the day of the dolls, Trevor was visited
at work by police and interviewed but never charged with anything. However, he says
he felt pressured to leave the family home for his wife to be allowed by Social
Welfare to take back care of Carolynne, so he lost his marriage, and for eight
years he also lost his daughter.
When Carolynne was taken from Glenelg she
was placed in the care of Social Welfare. After two months in foster homes she
asked to see Dr Espie, and requested the dolls to show, “What Dad did”. She put
the male doll’s finger in the female doll’s vagina and said, “Will I be able to
go home now I’ve told?”
Carolynne
returned to her mother’s care, but not Trevor’s. Throughout their separation Carolynn
repeatedly tried to get back to her father, running away from foster homes, living
on the streets. They are now reunited.
The stories of Violette and Carolynne are representative
of numerous families – too many to fit into this article, all depressingly
similar. Melani Burchett, the team leader at Glenelg when Violette was in her
fourth stay, whom I tracked down for
this story, remembers the girls sobbing themselves to sleep at night and their being
extremely reluctant to visit the doctor’s rooms.
Today Melani works on contract for Whanau
Ora in Christchurch, and recalls in particular one girl, “I’m sure it was
Violette, clinging to me and crying because she had to visit the doctor again
and didn’t want to go. But I wasn’t in a position to stop her, and I told her
she had to go.”
In hindsight Melani feels bad she didn’t
speak out. But at the time she was only 19 and Glenelg (which closed in 2012)
was tightly controlled by manager Madeleine Harrison. Harrison, it was reported
at the time, believed out of 250 children who went to the camp in 1986, 117 had
been sexually abused, based on symptoms such as stomach pains, nightmares,
bedwetting, masturbation, and attention seeking.
When two other camp staff tried to blow the
whistle, concerned about the way children were being examined and removed by
Social Welfare, they were both fired, ironically on allegations of
inappropriate behaviour with the children. Alan Fort was one of those who
complained and was dismissed by Harrison. Neither he nor the other staff member
were ever charged with anything, and Fort vehemently denies any “inappropriate
behaviour” or any actions which could have been taken the wrong way. He still
lives in Christchurch, keeps close contact with the Glenelg families, and has
campaigned hard on their behalf for an inquiry. I have tried to contact Ms Harrison but it’s believed she has returned to
live in Australia with her daughter.
Not one of the girls ever reported sexual
abuse by their fathers, nor showed symptoms, though some who had been examined
by Dr Espie at the controversial children’s Ward 24 at Christchurch Hospital were
abused later when removed from their families by Social Welfare and placed in
foster care. I have spoken to these families where the fathers were charged for
abusing their daughters, but acquitted, but I can’t name them legal reasons.
Dr Espie told the Christchurch Press in 1987 that she had examined 40
girls in just one year who she claimed had been sexually abused. In fact
Glenelg records show 55 girls from the camp that year were documented by her as
being abused. She had access to those children because their parents entrusted
them into state care.
As a result, most of those parents got a
choice – split up or you won’t get your daughters back again. In the case of Kahukiwa
family, Heeni falsely accepted that Noki was an abuser just to get Violette
back in her care. But not all the authorities were comfortable with what was
happening with these families. Robert Fraser, then with Social Welfare, had
“major concerns” with the way Dr Espie operated, and requested a transfer to
Income Support Services.
Additionally Dr Barry Rich, who at that
time was a psychologist for the Department of Education, stopped referring
children to Glenelg and Ward 24 because he only saw negative outcomes.
As recently as 2014 the outcomes were still
tragic. Katrina Meaclem went to Glenelg
when she was 12 in 1987 and after being examined by Dr Espie was removed by Welfare
from her family’s care. Katrina’s father was never charged or taken through the
criminal justice system, but nonetheless falsely accused of sexually abusing Katrina,
despite her repeated denials and in May 2004 she told the Christchurch Press, “I was Daddy’s girl. But we had
to sneak around just to spend some quality time with him. I know 100 per cent that
my father didn’t touch me.”
Dr Espie concluded, by measuring the vagina
of Katrina Meaclem, she had been sexually abused “possibly on a recurrent
basis” and her father was the abuser. He was never charged of sexual abuse crimes against her
Meaclem wanted an inquiry for herself and
the other families, but she died in 2014 aged 39.
Dr Karen Zelas
But Dr Espie wasn’t acting alone. When
Social Welfare took these fathers to court the state agency used psychiatrist Dr
Karen Zelas as an expert witness. Dr Zelas, now retired and living in
Christchurch (who did not wish to comment for this story), was once sought
after in child abuse cases but discredited as an independent expert witness by
the Court of Appeal in 2003 when she was strongly criticised by the judges for
‘gratuitously exceeding the limits of expert opinion’. The court went on to
state Zelas, ‘may well have been perceived as an advocate for the complainants
rather than as a truly independent expert’. The case, against a man convicted
on 16 counts of abusing three children, went to retrial, and the legal rules
Zelas helped design for child abuse cases came under attack from the legal
profession, psychologists and academics.
But in 1986 Zelas had chaired the
Christchurch Child Protection Team (CPT), and Dianne Espie was deputy chair. It
had no statutory authority. A crown prosecutor who was prosecuting some of the
fathers (not those named in this story) was among the membership, as were personnel
from the Health and Social Welfare Departments. It seems strange nobody thought
to draw attention to whether it was appropriate for a crown prosecutor to
belong to an ad hoc organisation which participated in the investigation of
child abuse (instigated by the deputy chair), used the chair as an expert
witness, then conducted prosecutions of members of other families when they
came before the criminal justice system.
Dr
Dianne Espie
Dianne
Espie also declined to be interviewed and said she did not wish to comment for
this article. She no longer practices medicine; she and her husband run a lodge
near Dunedin. From 1981 to 1988 she was
employed as Medical officer for the Department of Health (as it was then known)
and assigned to Glenelg and Christchurch Hospital’s Ward 24. She also assessed
other pre-school and school children in the Canterbury region. In 1987, Dr
Espie suggested 55 children attending Glenelg that year, out of a total of 414,
had been sexually abused. This compares with a norm of around five to 10
children a year out of 400 to 500.
Dr Espie would not appear on Assignment in 1995 (she hasn’t been
registered as a doctor since 1996) but faxed a statement denying hitting
Violette Kahukiwa or wishing her any harm, adding she only wanted the best for
her. It is of course entirely possible
Dr Espie was trying to act in the best interests of these children, as she
claimed later to The Press but
questions still remain around issues of consent – remember, this was about 10
years after the Cartwright Inquiry (see below) - children’s rights, involvement of parents,
privacy of the patients, and not the least the Hippocratic oath including the
words, “Either help, or do not harm the patient”.
In 2004 she told the Press, “I felt that I was acting in [the children’s] best interest
and reporting what they wanted to say, and protecting them. I wish now I had
never worked in child protection. But that’s a cowardly view, isn’t it? I mean,
someone has got to do it. I was a pioneer in the area and I thought we would be
listened to in the right way but we haven’t been.”
Resolution
These families – at least a dozen of whom I
have spoken with and have the details of - have battled for over a quarter
century for an inquiry, an apology, and they refuse to give up. They certainly
feel abused now where they weren’t before, and they want answers, beginning
with why they’ve been repeatedly ignored when they feel they did nothing wrong.
At least one senior barrister, Bill Wilson,
QC, chairman of the Glenn Inquiry into child abuse and domestic violence,
agrees. He says the Glenelg story, “Raises very serious concerns, not only over
what occurred there but also because of the persistent failure of those in a
position to do so, to ensure that the complaints were fully investigated.”
Wilson feels very strongly that, “A full
and independent inquiry should be held without further delay.”
Consent
Applying today’s standards of consent when
discussing medical examinations carried out on children 28 years ago is
difficult says Grant Gillett, Professor of Medical Ethics at the University of Otago, but says nevertheless,
“Standards do hold up.”
It was assumed that because parents entrusted
their children to Glenelg consent was given to everything which might arise,
an, “anything goes” kind of regime. In the case of Carolynne Gibling, there are
notes indicating a phone call to Carolynne’s mother requesting examinations,
but not specific vaginal inspections.
However, in 1997 when Carolynne’s parents
complained against Dr Espie to the Council, the panel said gaining this written
consent was not the responsibility of the clinician Dr Espie, but of the camp
manager, Madeleine Harrison.
This is an odd decision when held up
against the Cartwright Inquiry which occurred a decade earlier. Do adults have
the right to specific informed consent for invasive examinations, but children
don’t?
So when these girls did not present with
any indications of sexual abuse prior to being examined by the camp doctor,
were these repeated intimate examinations part of the general consent parents
signed up to when they took their children to these government institutions?
Emphatically no, says Professor Gillett. “
If it’s an asthma attack or the like, no problem, that needs to be handled with
expediency, but this was not a call like that. For an invasive intervention
with dubious intention there has to be due process of consent. You should get a
second opinion from a clinician who agrees it is warranted in the
circumstances, not a clinician who is hand-in-glove with you.
“And in these circumstances, in those times
that would have been difficult because a lot of clinicians would have seen
difficulties because of Cleveland. There were already worries with that kind of
evidence gathering.”
Gillett refers here to the 1987 Cleveland
scandal in the United Kingdom, when two paediatricians, Drs Marietta Higgs and
Geoffrey Wyatt, measured the anal reflex and dilation in children to diagnose
sex abuse, and welfare removed 121 children from their homes. An inquiry was
established immediately and in 1991 the Children Act was established as a
result. Cleveland, as it’s become known, has startling similarities to Glenelg.
And having a child alone in a consulting
room with a clinician doing intimate examinations even when they’ve requested
to take a support person? Was that acceptable back in 1987?
Professor Gillett: “This fails on a lot of
counts.”
Timeline
– Attempts at Justice
1988 Parents ask Prime Minister for a
ministerial inquiry.
1989 Social Welfare Minister Michael Cullen,
concerned at “inadequacy of evidence in some cases” requests report from Judge
Ken Mason. Mason reviews papers only and says a ministerial inquiry not
justified. Prime Minister Geoffrey Palmer agrees.
1990
Parents write to new Prime Minister Jim Bolger. Social Welfare Minister
Jenny Shipley requests second report from Ken Mason who again declines
ministerial inquiry but writes, “I regret to say that these cases will not go
away!”
1993 Hon Jim Bolger again dismisses calls
for an independent inquiry.
1995 One-hour Assignment programme screened. Rob Harley expects an inquiry will
follow but Cave Creek disaster occurred the next day, wiping all other news off
the radar.
1997 Trevor Gibling complained against Dr
Dianne Espie to the Medical Council, but withdraws complaint when advised
Carolynne will have to prove her story “beyond the balance of probabilities”.
2004 National MP Katherine Rich and Deborah
Coddington, Act list MP, raise questions in Parliament. Ruth Dyson, Labour’s
Associate Minister for Social Development and Employment (CYF) initially blamed
the Bolger/Shipley 1990 government, then later admitted the file dated back to
the 1988 Labour government. Dyson refuses to order inquiry unless new evidence
presented.
well done, about time these people were held accountable, 30 years of untrained,unaccountable,uncaring and unimaginable abuse carried out by these people.Its about time that everyone learns of the scale of this abuse, feel free to publish our story as well Deborah
ReplyDeleteThank you Deborah for bringing this out in the light -again- I think back on the abuse carried out at the hands of people who were supposed to be there 'for the good and well being of the children'... and all I can think of is these people did more harm than good and as yet are still unaccountable for the atrocities they committed pretty much just for money... I feel sick knowing that these people spent so much of their lives being praised by officials for all the 'good' they supposedly did for children over the years when the majority of the time all they did was tear loving families apart for absolutely no sane reason... the sooner people are made aware of the abhorrent abuse of children that these people are guilty of the better. Please feel free to publish our family story and I hope that the house of cards these people have been building for over 30 years finally comes crashing down around their ears and teaches them little bit about respect and humility that they so desperately seem to need
ReplyDeleteYou are so right Jo-Anne...
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ReplyDeleteI have had a very close contact with this concern for about 30 years. It is shattering and of epic concern concerning the innocence of the of the children involved. Dr Espie started to try and set records of false allegations and digital examinations of so many many girls. Realistically given Espie's results over a two year period of time and multiplied on average over her 13 year reign numbers are clearly heading towards the 1000 victims mark. This whole situation is vile and must be taken more seriously be the authorities in this country. All shame on Dr Espie for violating so may young girls and crippling their families.
ReplyDeleteThank you Deborah for taking this stand again and this time I hope and pray that relevant exposure will embarrass the authorities into being pro-active and become real with investigation of this terrible tragedy in New Zealand.
Deborah, What can I say..It reopens deep emotions and anger re reading youre factual honest account of what did tragically happen to so many families torn apart and left to deal with this abuse,Especially from the very people advocating" FIRST DO NO HARM"...Shame on them !!!.And further shame on those in the know..whom did nothing, but rather put it all in the too hard basket..To those that did speak up ,and those of you out there,professionals in the field at the time, that knew but felt the whole process did not sit right,or privey to information that affected outcomes ..Please in the name of all that is good and humane Do something its never too late please for all those affected by this Speak up..contact Deborah .
ReplyDeleteDeborah, i am sorry to lay this at youre feet , but people need to go somewhere if they have information that can help .All though we have never meet,you are one couragious human being.For one, i remain eternally grateful to you .
Hi it's Caroline Gibling
ReplyDeleteAll I've got to say is this bollocks has gone on for way to long and no justice has bee felt out to these subhuman who ruined our lives so someone should give me the address so I can serve my own justice
Good on you girl,We all know how bad this shit is/was.From here on in it can only get better. For those at fault, gumboots and thigh-waders wont save them fron the amount of Shit they going to wade through. we can hold our heads high, they wont be able to open their mouths without getting a mouthfull of Shit.
ReplyDeleteCaroline, i knew youre dad way back then. I recall the anguish he was going through for you Caroline, he never gave up trying. As i recall keith and Margaret..broken with grief They also never gave up fighting for their kids I cried with youre mum and dad...I have not seen youre father Caroline, in many many years, or the fraser childrens parents, but they were never far from my thoughts.I wonder if , they remember me...So much hurt..It certainly affected all our lives But you know what , as Keith says above..Its always darkest before dawn ...They cant escape, theres nowhere for them to run Hold tight this time ..this time we may be heard And we will yell it from the mountain tops ..
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DeleteYes Keith...its been a long time...Just older and grey hairs..And quiet a few kilos heavier...And thats being kind..x
Deletebeen there done that, still doing some.Still fighting the fight, although we might be gaining some momentum. get hold of Alan and get our number/email
DeleteMum died few years back I didn't have much to with her once I started living with dad as all this shit split up our family I still have regular contact with dad I've been quite a angry child growing up and always hitting brick walls with fighting for justice lead me spiraling Dow the wrong path it's only been over the last 5 years I've learned to deal with bad situations better and due to good support round I'm on a better road I will never recover from what I've been through
ReplyDeleteTo be honest I'm so over talking to people telling my story over and over again and not getting anywhere it makes me tired and exhausted
I know exactly where you're coming from. I've spent the majority of my life (30 years), being angry about what happened to us at the hands of these people, and frustrated because no one wanted to listen to us when we tried to tell them they were wrong, and guilty because I couldn't get anyone to actually listen to me and the boy who actually abused us went on to abuse other girls, and depressed because instead of listening to us, they tried to make us believe that we were the ones in the wrong, and tired because 30 years of battling the system and fighting to be heard takes it's toll, sucks the life right out of you, and robs you of the good things in your life.
DeleteAll of that crap happened to me when I was 8 years old, before I had even had a chance to work out who I was and where I fitted into the grand scheme of things. Instead of being allowed to grow up in the loving home I once had with my parents, and learn who I was and how I fitted into this crazy, mixed up world we all live in... I got dragged through a ton of crap, had to put on a whole lot of armor, go to war, and help fight for justice for myself and my family in an adult world, without even knowing what the heck I was even doing.
The whole time, I had been building a solid wall around myself. I learned to hide my true feelings, to not truly allowing myself to trust anyone, and to make sure that no one would ever hurt me again. I learned to hide behind a smile, saying that everything was fine, while I slowly but surely felt like I was losing my mind. But I couldn't let anyone see that because I knew that if the wrong people saw a chink in my armor, they would use it to their advantage and make my life even more difficult.
I am now married to a wonderful man who knows about my past and loves me despite of it, even with my flaws, and we have 2 great children. And I am trying my best to finally pull down my wall and allow myself back into the world of feeling again. It's not easy dealing with 30 years of anger, frustration, guilt, and depression, especially considering none of this was ever my fault, I just got used as a pawn in a game I didn't even know the rules to...
Now we're making up our own rules... this game is changing and the people who did this won't even know what hit them by the time we've finished with them.
I still struggle with what happened back then. But am amazed at some of the strong women I have met who have been thru the same ordeals my sisters and I did and I only hope for these evil/misguided people who did these unforgivable things to us and those that stood by and knew it was happening finally face up to the consequences of what they have done or allowed to happen.
ReplyDeleteNo family should have to go thru what ours and others have had to
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ReplyDeleteCarolyn, We altho havent walked in youre shoes,know only too well the senario,youre shattered life has taken you.You have every right to be angry. ...My daughter is visiting me presently due to a broken limb and a push bike..Shes returning home tomorrow.[Shes a profesional]..I told her yesterday about this page..She was already suspicious at my sudden quietness and suspicious at my early morning tears. A dead give away .Again as we talked ,she reminded me as you have Carolyn..'Mum we have been down this road so many times.Im scared youre going to get hurt again trusting the authorities {.We have come to know it, as System Abuse}.We didnt talk about our own case ,but we did talk about HOW we all could deal with the trauma..Who could help us.We discussed in depth ,the adults like yourselves whom paid the ultimate price..And where do they go,to get heard and eventually healing..My daughter a wise old owl said..Mum what about the adults now ,who believed the abuse actually happened , reinforced by significant others. .How are they going to cope..once the lid is lifted off Pandoras box.I asked her to come and read Deborahs blog..She replied Mum,i dont have to read that ,I already know in my heart as fact ,no abuse ever
ReplyDeletehappened.If i can know, and I was a similar age, Why cant they question things themselves.My response, Well Adolph Hitler managed to convince a nation...And look at the result of that. Million of people died...We had our tears, mine for all the lost children you guys.She then asked me Mum, what do you want to happen to the perpatrators of this collateral damage . I told her Carolyn, about youre post of seeking youre own justice..Anger caught me in that moment ..An eye for an eye..She gently replied Mum you dont mean that. What about their kids..They are innocent in all this..She left me to work through that..This i am still struggling with also.No different to you all.Carolyn and all those whom have bravely come in here..They have stolen youre innocence, they have torn you all apart.For some they took our husbands .And they in turn died of broken hearts.Again what do we want What is justice.?What will heal us all .Where do we go for that..I can only imagine a counsellor would have a nervous breakdown at hearing one case, let alone collectivy..This is the human side of it all ..I admire and altho never met ,will do all i can do Carolyn to help if needed ..know you are not alone..I might have ten years left of my own life left, and i am going to make it count...for all the loss children ..xx
Part One
ReplyDeleteI don’t know how any of you young people and your Families have managed to survive what these criminals have subjected you to but that you have, is a testament to your strength, courage and personal integrity.
You were subjected to illegal, unethical and unjustified interventions into your young lives which turned them into a nightmare which has continued unaddressed over most of your life time.
Crimes committed against children and Families by people claiming to be Child Protection experts and advocates but the sad and sinister reality was that they were only advocates of their own self Interest.
This did not happen by accident. It was carefully planned and deliberately executed. A cancer of fanaticism and greed that spread across the Nation , not driven by a desire to help but only to bleed the system and grow rich at the expense and misery of thousands of Families.
The children were used as a vehicle to destroy the Families and no one in a position of authority came to your rescue. Even when they were given indisputable evidence of crimes being committed , they sat on their arse and did noting to help.
The United Nations Charter for Children's Rights states that if we know of situations of Child Abuse and do nothing , we are equally culpable. Now they are all implicated by their silence in the crimes they should have acted to prevent.
So we have a list of all the people and Government Institutions that fall into this category. And it is extensive. People who had neither the integrity or courage to act to protect children in their own Country from systematic and sustained physical , emotional and sexual abuse , bullying , manipulation , torture perpetrated by people paid by the State to protect children who demonstrated by their actions a bewildering lack of humanity , care or compassion. None of them ever deserve to work ever again in the Human Service Industry. They should be shipped of to Pakistan for the duration of their miserable lives to sow soccer balls. What you have engaged in is Domestic Terrorism and you should be treated accordingly !!
Part Two
ReplyDeleteTo all the Children across our Nation who got caught up in what is referred to Internationally as the Sexual Abuse Industry :
You are New Zealand’s “Stolen Generation “and there are direct parallels here to the crimes committed against the Aboriginal Children in Australia.
UN Convention on the Rights of the Child (UNCRC) To which New Zealand is a signatory !!!
Every child has the right to survival, protection and education, and to have their voice heard. These and many other fundamental children’s rights are outlined in the UNCRC.
The United Nations Convention on the Rights of the Child (UNCRC) is a legally-binding international agreement setting out the civil, political, economic, social and cultural rights of every child, regardless of their race, religion or abilities.
The UNCRC consists of 54 articles that set out children’s rights and how governments should work together to make them available to all children.
Since it was adopted by the United Nations in November 1989, 194 countries have signed up to the UNCRC, with only two countries in the world still to ratify. All countries that sign up to the UNCRC are bound by international law to ensure it is implemented. This is monitored by the Committee on the Rights of the Child.
Under the terms of the convention, governments are required to meet children’s basic needs and help them reach their full potential. Central to this is the acknowledgment that every child has basic fundamental rights. These include the right to:
life, survival and development
protection from violence, abuse or neglect
an education that enables children to fulfill their potential
be raised by, or have a relationship with, their parents
express their opinions and be listened to.
Article 19: State obligations to protect children against maltreatment and abuse.
Article 34: State obligations to protect children from sexual exploitation and sexual abuse.
Article 35: State obligations to prevent the abduction or trafficing of children.
Article 36: State obligations to protect children from all other forms of exploitation prejudicial to the child's welfare.
In relation to these Articles from the United Nations Charter Successive Governments , Institution and individuals have failed catastrophically in their Duty of Care.
History will remember these terrible events as the greatest injustice ever inflicted on New Zealand Families .
Alan I find myself backin here today.I have just read youre part one and part two of,UNCRC..There is without doubt the Authority failed dismally.It is disagreeable to the highest level.Now what i would like to know is this..WHOM IN Authority is going to put their hands up first...And secondly I want to know ...Whom was responsible for blocking this dreadful Injustice...Can anyone help me find the answers to those questions...
ReplyDeleteI also meant to say to you the public at large , These events all of what has been bravely shared, happened prior to The Civic Child Care Case...Those woman accused and Peter Ellis, never stood a chance..The same so called expert opinions, were the perpatrators in that dreadful miscarriage of Justice.I am personally ashamed i never made the effort to meet Peter personally.Peter had a wonderful person totally committed to helping.I do remember going to that gentlemans place .I was humbled at the hours of work he was putting in ,for Peters cause.And ours collectively. Its these people that deserve public recognition..I only trust hes still in good health. God bless him and his wife .
ReplyDeleteAlan I find myself backin here today.I have just read youre part one and part two of,UNCRC..There is without doubt the Authority failed dismally.It is disagreeable to the highest level.Now what i would like to know is this..WHOM IN Authority is going to put their hands up first...And secondly I want to know ...Whom was responsible for blocking this dreadful Injustice...Can anyone help me find the answers to those questions...
ReplyDeleteMoral Panic - Child Sexual Abuse
Focus on People
Dianne Espie and the Glenelg Health Camp
The Press
May 20 2004
False abuse claim robs woman of dying dad
by Jarrod Booker
Katrina Meaclem missed out on precious time with her dying father because of false sexual abuse allegations.
Sixteen years after her father's death, Meaclem, 29, cannot forgive Dr Diane Espie, who examined her and added considerable weight to existing claims that she had been abused by her father.
Without the diagnosis by Espie when she was 12, Meaclem believes she may have been allowed to return to live with her parents.
"I was daddy's girl. (But) we had to sneak around just to spend some quality time with him," Meaclem said.
"I think the most time I spent with (my father) was when he ended up in hospital."
Her father spent six weeks in hospital before he died. Espie is under scrutiny for her examination of several young girls at Christchurch's Glenelg Health Camp.
ACT MP Deborah Coddington said Espie's examinations and claims against the fathers of her patients amounted to a "dreadful scandal".
"Dr Espie, without the parents' permission and with no other adult present, repeatedly examined these little girls in a way that can only be described as sexual abuse," Coddington said under parliamentary privilege.
Coddington is now seeking an inquiry into examinations that took place at Glenelg Health Camp.
Meaclem's father was never charged by police over sexual abuse allegations, but she and her two younger sisters were put into foster care.
She was examined at Glenelg Health Camp in 1987.
"I remember being taken up to this room which was upstairs and told to lay on the bed because I was going to be examined for sexual abuse. At that time I didn't know how to act or what to do, I just went with the flow," Meaclem said.
"She wasn't gentle – I remember that. (Espie) said I had to get it done.
"I wasn't allowed anyone in the room with me."
Espie's notes said her examination of Meaclem was "strongly suggestive of sexual interference, possibly on a recurrent basis".
Her report said Meaclem "obviously had a lot on her mind, was hiding a lot and suppressing a lot of feelings".
"My recommendation is that Katrina receive ongoing support/counselling to assist her to verbalise her feelings, particularly relating to home and family," Espie wrote. Meaclem said she could not have made it more clear that she had not suffered abuse.
"(Espie) said we know it's been done. She was pretty determined that it happened.
"I know 100 per cent that my father didn't touch me. I never let people push that into my head."
Meaclem would like compensation for her and others examined by Espie.
"Money is not going to clear anything up, or anything like that. But it might bring some people a little bit of happiness."
Espie, who is no longer registered to practise in New Zealand, could not be reached by The Press for comment.
We need to get this up on the site and find this Family
Katrina Passed away in 2014
Katrina Louise (Mumma Bear, Kat) Meaclem
love u
Katrina Louise (Mumma Bear, Kat) Meaclem
Born on 7 May 1975
Passed away on 19 October 2014
Aged 39 years
At Christchurch Hospital surrounded by her family. Dearly loved mum of Haylen, Zane, Sharna, Brydie, Sarah, Khan, and Abbagale. Loved daughter of Norma and the late John, dearly loved sister of Nicky, and Liz (Mavis), and a loving friend to many.
The people responsible for perpetrating these have a lot to answer for ! And answer , they will !!
I am daughter of Katrina Meaclem, can someone please send me more information and/or notes about this please.
DeleteMy mother spoke very little of her past, this breaks my heart so much ðŸ˜ðŸ’” Has anything been done has Espie been held accountable yet or?
This is shocking and disgusting!